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Hit and Miss #424

Today’s meant to be a woodworking day, but I’ve spent the morning thinking, reading, and writing (the latter two, let’s be real, are just different versions of the former)—no complaints. I’ve realized in recent weeks, when this newsletter’s come out later in the day, that leaving it just leaves me feeling anxious and distracted. So, morning writing it is.


I wonder sometimes about how I show up for conversations. While the environment and ambient context of the day play a role, it’s also quite affected by how I “prep” beforehand, what I do before we speak.

Before, do I spend down time scrolling my phone, fragmenting my attention? What if, instead, I find a moment of calm, like cuddling a cat or sitting quietly?

How does one form of prep affect my presence versus the other? I can’t say for sure what are the effects of scrolling beforehand, but they’re probably not ideal.

It’s maybe a bigger point, about being conscious of and engaged with how we’ll show up in each thing we do in a day. Some of what we do is lower stakes, not worth as much consciousness. But being with other people, they deserve that attention.


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All the best for the week ahead!

Lucas