Maintenance, care, attention

Hit and Miss #157

Good morning!

It’s been a quiet week for me, filled with walking and reading. I’ve been happily in my own head—but am looking forward to emerging and re-engaging with the world next week. (Apologies if I haven’t yet replied to an email from the last few weeks!)

I think one of the most powerful philosophies is maintenance. We can also talk about care and attention—these are words that get at the same concept, while implying a different scale or approach. They share the ideal of giving our best to the world around us.

Giving our best to the world around us. That could mean fixing up machinery, noticing and listening when somebody speaks to us, tending to a garden, or any similar activity. It’s not constrained to objects, it doesn’t have to happen on a schedule—but it almost invariably makes our surroundings and ourselves just a little bit more resilient.

Around the home, maintenance for me often looks like cleaning my boots, fixing up cabinetry or shelves, or just tightening a few loose screws. Care and attention, similarly, play out when I pick up the phone to call a friend or a relative, reaching out and reminding each other that that connection exists, that it’s worth maintaining.

This can also happen on a larger scale: while maintenance, care, and attention can be incredibly fulfilling at the small scale, we can’t lose sight of the larger-scale systems, structures, and relationships that contribute to our lives, whether institutions or less formal organizations. Giving our best to them may take the form of small actions, done in explicit service of a larger good.

A few things from my week or my files speak to this, directly or indirectly:

Giving our best may not always make something or someone better. Sometimes circumstances or material realities prevent “better”, whatever that means for the situation at hand. But it’s about the act of doing so, and the implied statement: “you matter”.

So, friend, thank you for reading. I hope you have a lovely day, and all the best for the week ahead.


P.S. I realized that this is—roughly—the three year anniversary of this newsletter. The letters have tightened up since the first—I hope they still offer something interesting to you. Thanks so much for coming along for the ride.